You know what the drinking is doing to them, do you know what it is doing to you?
After getting into Al-Anon I also learned about, “erasing old tapes,” I did not have a clue what that meant.
But he only drinks. How many times I have said that to myself. That was my rationale. He can’t have alcoholic tendencies, it’s only beer.
I blamed everything on the bottle. If he/they would just stop drinking, everything would be okay.
I was at my wit’s end when I arrived at the doors of Al-Anon. Afraid to enter, but yet, I was there.